Re: I feel lost...boyfriend is the cause?
I think you might really be surprised how little you miss him and how relieved you are to be rid of him once he is really gone. You can choose to ride this out to the very end, but you know that is coming at 100MPH and it's coming soon. Go back and read your own post. You are more unhappy with him than you will miss him.
It's great that he will be moving to his own place soon. Gradually ease him out of your life completely once that happens. He sounds like a very selfish person. He is lying to you about people in your place while you are working, AND he is getting into your cell phone without permission!
Take back your control and kick this one to the curb. No one needs this kind of BS in their life.