Re: my rant for today!!!!
Your BIL just doesn't want to be responsible for hearing this diagnosis. None of us do. But gee, it isn't your job this go around. He didn't step up to the plate when your Mom was first bad, did he? Guess not. It is hard to hear this and it would be easier to hear it from someone else. He just wants you to do the initial dity work for him. Don't we all. Too bad.
Stick to your guns. Or you could offer to drop your Mom off with them and they can all learn together. Sorry.....that was nasty....
Grab onto the towel and hang on tight.....keep your sister in your prayers..