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Old 11-26-2008, 07:04 AM   #4
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Re: Caring for boyfriend advice please help!!!!

he doesn't need a caregiver......
a caregiver is for someone who is terminally ill....
this man is functioning, functioning well enough to pop you in the nose and break it......
don't be co-dependent......let him meet his own needs, stop trying to take care of him......he doesn't need it, and he doesn't deserve it.....
he's abusive, he's not depressed.......
he's a therapist/psychologist? he should know better.....
this isn't a healthy man and you can't have a healthy relationship with him.....I'd say move on.