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Old 03-11-2009, 05:46 AM   #5
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Re: I'm 20, my mom passed. How to cope?

krazigymnast530, it will take time, but the hurt gets less and less -- and you will have days when it comes back just like it happened all over again. I lost my Dad on December 23, 2008. I've been on that rollercoaster. A lot of us on this board are on that rollercoaster, so we know how you feel. Don't hold your feelings inside. See if there is a Grief support group you can join, or a very close friend you can talk to who's gone through the same thing. I've done all these, and this board has been so helpful as well. I am so sorry about your Mom. I wish there was a magic pill to get us through this, but there's us - your friends. I don't have any magic words that will help, just know that we are all here for you and will talk to you when you need us. A lot of people say to remember the good times, but that's hard at this stage. You were lucky to have her for your Mom, and she was proud to have you for her daughter. Just talk to us when you need to. We'll be here. {{HUGS}}