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Old 03-14-2009, 09:08 PM   #3
Soibhan Soibhan is offline
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Re: Concerned about ex. Please help!

I know it sounds harsh, but this woman is mentally ill and until SHE decides to seek help, her life will be going in a downward spiral. You sound like a kind, sensitive person and you deserve a woman who is willing to meet you halfway in the issues of life. You certainly didn't cause your ex's problems, nor can you help her if she doesn't see that she has some major issues. Does she have parents or siblings with whom she is close? As her ex-fiance I would think you have the right to speak with her family (when she's not around) and express your concerns. They may not realize how ill she is. Then, for your own sake, walk away and don't look back. You've done all you can do. I'm sorry it's turned out so rotten for you, but life will get better--I'm sure of it!
Soibhan