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Old 03-25-2009, 03:29 PM   #2
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Re: Rock and a Hard Place

Hi Adultorchild and welcome

I'm a bit confused.... not unusual for me! are you talking about looking for a real mother - like a birth mother? if so and thats what you need to do - then you have to do what you need to do - its difficult to answr this without more info

If you are talking about the chlld inside looking for a mother it felt it never had - then this is where a therapist can help you find the means to fill the needs of the child inside - help to heal it and help you become a whole instead of a fractured person

Either way people around you may not like you changing and growing - they are used to the old you and may not like or feel comfortable with the new one -

Don't know if any of this helps - take care
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