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Old 04-07-2009, 09:07 PM   #12
Trang123 Trang123 is offline
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Re: Caring for boyfriend advice please help!!!!

Hi there,

I was married to a man you are describing for 22 years. He is justifying his actions by hiding behind " depression" he is indeed being controlling and manipulative to you and I agree you should, for your own safety and that of your babies, remove yourself from him as soon as possible. He is not going to change. Let him get the help he needs from a professional and maybe in the future you guys can try again. Someone who is depressed does not punch their love one in the nose, that is pure abuse, and maybe even a personality disorder.

Just my view honey