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Old 05-01-2009, 02:03 AM   #7
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Re: I don't know where to start, but my dad has mesothelioma.

We let dad go Missy. He left us this morning about 15 minutes after we got to him. We all told him how much we love him, what a great dad he is and a great husband. Each of us told him that it was time for him to leave us and start his journey. We played the music he wanted played and held his hands and rubbed his legs. He wasn't really struggling as much as we thought he would thanks to sedation and then his heart just stopped. We checked on him last night and left him when he was settled - when we got to him this morning he looked 100% worse than 12 hours before. I am thankful that he is now pain and fear free, but do not relish the next stage of my life's adventures.