Re: what is this?
Chevy, these are the same old issues you've posted about again and again. I've said that she isn't going to suddenly morph into the loving, affectionate woman you want her to be.
So you have two options:
1) Realize she is never going to change, accept her as is and you really can't complain since you know the score
2) leave and look for a woman who will give you the love and affection you crave.