HealthBoards - View Single Post

pendulum · 07-10-2009, 05:58 PM

I am sorry you are going through this. Of course you have all the rights in the world to feel the way you feel. But as your friends and relatives must have already told you, there is no way out of this situation, save through the divorce. Apparently, this man doesn't love you anymore, if ever he did. I know I may sound quite blunt to say so, but it's better for your own health and sanity to give him his freedom back and then learn to enjoy your own freedom again and the opportunity to rebuild your life while you are still young. In the meantime, talk to a lawyer and try to avoid a litigious divorce.
It is also important not to turn into a bitter person for this bad experience. Try to find some solace in your friends, in nature, in the arts, in literature, in music, etc.

07-10-2009, 05:58 PM	#2
pendulum Senior Veteran (male) Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Florianópolis, Brazil Posts: 3,462	Re: Husband wants divorce after 8 years. I am sorry you are going through this. Of course you have all the rights in the world to feel the way you feel. But as your friends and relatives must have already told you, there is no way out of this situation, save through the divorce. Apparently, this man doesn't love you anymore, if ever he did. I know I may sound quite blunt to say so, but it's better for your own health and sanity to give him his freedom back and then learn to enjoy your own freedom again and the opportunity to rebuild your life while you are still young. In the meantime, talk to a lawyer and try to avoid a litigious divorce. It is also important not to turn into a bitter person for this bad experience. Try to find some solace in your friends, in nature, in the arts, in literature, in music, etc.