Hi. Thank you so much for replying. Yes i have talked to him about it. Only quite recently though. I've even told him about this post. He said he thinks it's a possibility, not upset by it, but not sure what to feel until a diagnosis was made. I think he'd feel some relief if anything. He said he would like to investigate it further but doesn't know where or how to start. So he asked me to take charge. I'm a little worried about that as i wouldn't want to put him in a position he's not ready to be in. So i'm not sure where to go from this point. I siggested he post something himself but again he doesn't know where to start, what to say. What do we do next?