Sister's 3 and 4 and not oblivious because I keep them fully informed. I called each sister on the way to the hospital Saturday morning and talked to each of them several times a day with the last call to each on my way home tonight. What they do is their choices and what I do is mine
I knew the ramifications when I moved them here and I am willing to do anything and everything I can.
What I do know, at the moment, is that I am not far from my bed!!!!