My sister got married to a wonderful guy, at least I think so. He has lots of money and everything, nice, caring, genuine, just down to earth. She chose not to work because she is stupid and was out having an affair on him months after they got married. I alwasy told her she had way too much time on her hands to not be doing anything. I think it is ok not to work for a certain about of time if you have kids but I also think that there would be too many things to do to get yourself into trouble, like my sister did.