Re: with my bf for 8yrs an only came like 10times only
The **** is your key to pleasure and if you want the pleasure that an orgasm provides you will learn and teach your partner how to stimulate you in ways that are more likely to get you there. Contrary to popular belief, it's not the mans job to give you an orgasm. You are primarily responsible for your own orgasm and it starts between the ears, not the legs. The only issues I see is your failure to communicate and expecting your partner to please you. Real sex isn't like a romance novel, nor is it like erotica. It's all much more mechanical than one would believe and every woman needs a master mechanic that she has taught and groomed to please her! Beleve me, they don't have a clue!