Re: Looking for input from outsiders....
How are you doing with everything? I wanted to tell you yesterday that I sympathize with your boyfriend's situation because I have had breast and bladder cancer and am a survivor but not a victim. I tried to go to work when I had just had my chemotherapy and dragged myself to work but by noon being around others really helped me not feel sorry for myself and I got stronger. So I wanted you to know that people as they get stronger can get help and appreciate those who help them in life. Be good to yourself and your children and find support to help you be assertive and set boundaries. Have a great weekend.