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Old 05-18-2010, 02:14 PM   #11
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Re: help with dating someone with borderline

as someone who had a BPD BF for a year, the best advice I can give you is to get out now.....the sooner the better.
they have a bottomless black hole that you can never fill.....
they will take take take until they've taken everything you've got and then some.
it's just too exhausting.......why would you voluntarily sign up for something like this? I found out by accident after researching anger management....I put 2 and 2 together, started reading books about it and was able to realize that was the problem.....it WASN'T me....
tried to fix it, realized there was no fix and I didn't want to spend my life being someone's scapegoat.....hopefully you will realize that before they've destroyed you