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Old 05-19-2010, 10:54 AM   #13
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Re: help with dating someone with borderline

I am well aware of the positive traits of BPD. I begged my BPD boyfriend to PLEASE STOP drownding all your wonderful good points with your anger.....
he just wouldn't stop.....
the relationship was good for 3 months and bad for 9 months....
at that point, when the bad had outweighed the good, for 3 X as long, it was time for me to move on.....I wasn't willing to be destroyed. I had escaped an abusive marriage, I sure wasn't going to let a boyfriend put me back in a similar situation.....