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Old 06-05-2010, 06:34 PM   #6
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Re: Please Help Me, My relationship is dying :(

6 years is a long time to be a girl friend. Was there a plan to get married? I'll be honest here, by the 3-4 year point I think I would have assumed marriage was not on the table if there was no ring or even pre-ring. You know the drill. If he hadn't put a ring on it, regardless of the school/work/pressure situations, I'm not sure he ever intended to. Honestly, I hate this to sound as cold as it does, but I think you can be Ms. Good Enough and even best friend material. But that's not the same as being "the one" and after 6 years I think it would be very surprising if that now happens assuming there was no ring/year of marriage discussed up until now. It just doesn't seem real likely to me.