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Old 06-06-2010, 09:49 AM   #7
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Re: Please Help Me, My relationship is dying :(

Hon, I really think it is time to let go. If he doesn't want to be there even if he stays it won't be right. I know you must be hurting so much you feel you'll break. I've been there and I do understand. I understand this will be so hard for you. Believe it or not here will be great happiness in your life and all will make sense. I would really encourage you to use this as a time to learn about yourself and really grow. Explore whatever matters to you; religion, hobbies, education or all of the above. I'm going through a divorce right now from a man I considered the love of my life (before I found out he'd been cheating since day one). Here's a quote I use to hang on when I feel I can't:

"Behind all this, some great happiness is hiding." ~ Yehuda Amichai

Again, I'm so sorry. I feel your pain in your words and your deep desire to be right for him.