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blokecalledkev · 09-06-2010, 05:22 AM

Hi Drezzy,

This is a very tough call, whether to tell or not tell your partner. I really don't feel too comfortable advising you either way as this is entirely your call. I can tell you I did tell my partner. It was a very traumatic and tough time for us both, almost to the point of divorce, but we did pull through it. Yes there is the argument that there should be no secrets but on the other hand factoring the hurt it causes our partners makes it a very tough choice. Unfortunately, this really is down to you.

Regards Kevin.

09-06-2010, 05:22 AM	#4
blokecalledkev Facilitator (male) Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: UK Posts: 2,745	Re: Worried Sick about HIV Hi Drezzy, This is a very tough call, whether to tell or not tell your partner. I really don't feel too comfortable advising you either way as this is entirely your call. I can tell you I did tell my partner. It was a very traumatic and tough time for us both, almost to the point of divorce, but we did pull through it. Yes there is the argument that there should be no secrets but on the other hand factoring the hurt it causes our partners makes it a very tough choice. Unfortunately, this really is down to you. Regards Kevin.