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fingerscrossed · 02-25-2002, 10:54 PM

Okay, ladies..I havent been on the board in a while, but now I need your assistance. DH and I have been trying to conceive for about 4 months and I am now fertile for the next couple of days, but everytime I try to instigate "it", he's not into it and doesnt feel like participating. How do I deal with this? I am so TOTALLY upset and just down right hurt and I also feel rejected. I'll admit, we tried and well...to put it bluntly.. "he didnt get it up" .Has anyone had this? and are still with that person in a loving relationship? Am I overreacting? or does this happen? and why does it happen?
I know this isnt about pregnancy, but you guys are so awesome with advice. Thanks!

02-25-2002, 10:54 PM	#1
fingerscrossed Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: burlington, ks USA Posts: 30	How do I handle this? Okay, ladies..I havent been on the board in a while, but now I need your assistance. DH and I have been trying to conceive for about 4 months and I am now fertile for the next couple of days, but everytime I try to instigate "it", he's not into it and doesnt feel like participating. How do I deal with this? I am so TOTALLY upset and just down right hurt and I also feel rejected. I'll admit, we tried and well...to put it bluntly.. "he didnt get it up" .Has anyone had this? and are still with that person in a loving relationship? Am I overreacting? or does this happen? and why does it happen? I know this isnt about pregnancy, but you guys are so awesome with advice. Thanks!