Re: confused then hurt
It is easy to see why you are confused...I am too! Anytime a person uses words that do not make much sense, look at their actions. They are often much easier to decipher.
His actions are telling me that he is not ready willing or able to participate in a relationship right now. He has chosen to establish his "out" before ever getting in...not someone to pursue by any means. This man is not available.