Originally Posted by Ely4
Have you considered councelling to try and put this into perspective?
It obviously wasn't meant to be and you should have moved on and left it behind you. You aren't being fair to your wife or kids by constantly pining for your ex and you're not doing yourself any good either.
Brilliant Ely, brilliant. I've been in counseling forever. I'm well aware of the damage I continue to inflict on myself and that it is not fair to my wife or kids. I want to move out of this, forget her, forget her, forget her, forget her. Problem is, nothing I've done seems to work.
Thanks anyway for the attempt to help.