Boyfriend answering Craigslist ads?
I admit it. I snooped into his email that was open. I found that last year he opened a Craigslist account and was answering ads titled such as "ready for fun and action" last year. I'm wondering if there were others that were deleted but I will never know. He was also answering quite a few ads from women selling used worn panties and asking them for pictures of them wearing it, where to meet up and if he could remove them from their body. There were no emails that ever actually set up a meeting but a lot of correspondence was there. I did discover a pair of underwear stashed in an unused duffel bag which disappeared after the confrontation.I never found any phone number exchanges.
One of the email replies from him was
"Hey what's going on, I just got home. I live in Howard Beach, and yes, I do have a car.
What you up 2 tonight?
P.S I dont mind married women. "
"Let me know when you're available. I'm always up for a drink and could scoop you up."
When I confronted him he claims it was just for fun and he never actually met anyone, he was just toying around. I mean nudie magazines and porn is one thing but this is another. He swears he will never do anything like that ever again and apologized. I moved in 5 months ago (we were in different states) and there hasn't been anything after that date.
Do I believe this? Am I a complete idiot if I do? Should I accept this? Please help. Any input from men and women would be greatly appreciated. I'm tearing my hair out over this.