Re: Am I over reacting?
I'm not sure why you have a problem with this. Do you prefer that everyone buries their head in the sand and pretend it's not going on? That doesn't help anyone with anything. It's much more effective to tell the kids that they need to be careful and they need to be responsible or else there are major consequences.
If anything, I would call the school and thank them for being frank with the kids so they know what can happen.