Re: What to do about my boyfriend's family...particularly his mother!
Your boyfriend really needs to move out of his Mother's house. Then he needs to stand up to her and stand up for you.
If he won't or can't stand up for you, he never will. My ex never stood up for me to his Mother, and now he's an ex.
Do you really want to live your life with a MIL like her and a husband who won't stand up to his own Mother to protect and defend you??
You should really think about it long and hard. I wish I had.