Re: When to have "The Talk"?
Why not just ask him?
You two seem to be close and able to communicate so why not just ask him? Don't feel shy about it or feel like you can't talk to him ,you deserve to know whats going on. If he is great as you say, i am sure he would be very open and honest with you and gentle with his words if he says nothing but friendship.
Example if you ask ''Just wondering if we officially together or just friends''.......where in this question is there any pressure. Finding out where you stand with someone is NOT pressure. Its all good that your thinking about him but you have yourself to think about too, your feelings, where you stand etc...its not all about just him.
Last edited by cryingforever; 04-10-2011 at 12:37 PM.
Reason: added the example bit....