Re: sexual/control/mental issues ? not sure - please help
I'm less concerned with "him" & "his" diagnosis than I am about your well being. Does a diagnosis really matter? Is he the type of person who will seek therapy & seriously work it?
I agree about the DV issue. You are being abused & you are the one in need of support. Most communities have some type of DV facility with counseling & other services.
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Please understand that when you are involved with an abuser, it's easy to get caught up in spending all of your energy trying to figure out & manage "him".
I think it's time to make it about "you" & your need for support & an environment that allows you to heal.
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