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Old 04-27-2011, 10:22 AM   #7
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Re: Shyness with women...

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Originally Posted by kingam View Post
hey guys... i recently met someone who is very cool, and so far so good, but here is my problem...

i get so nervous ill have nothing to say... like im nervous the conversation will become quiet and she will think im boring...

any of you get this? what do you do? its killing me... i want things to go well so badly i beat myself up over the smallest stuff... gives me tons of anxiety.
I can empathise. Happens all the time, and then after I always think, well that could have gone better. Can think of witty, interesting conversations in my head but then I have a mind freeze when the situation occurs.