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Old 07-09-2011, 12:13 PM   #4
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Re: Caring for Mother with Pulmonary fibrosis and need help with abusive grandson

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Originally Posted by boodle2 View Post
We do report him and the police do NOTHING! which absolutely amazes me, and also she has to agree that he needs to go and she won't do that! And she is not afraid of him, But I am considering getting a lawyer and see what our options are, he screams at her when he wants money and her oxygen level gets down to 64 which is not even life sustainable, but she allows him to do it and it is so frustrating for us.
My brother was an alcoholic and was to abusive to both my parents and they wouldn't kick him out of the house either. I called a lawyer and was told there was nothing my younger brother and I could do to get my alcoholic brother out of my parents house except to take my parents to court and had them declared incompetent by a judge and become their conservators or guardian. It's extremely frustrating to see your mom being abused but until she decides she has had enough and calls the police herself and presses charges against your nephew there isn't much you can do. Go to A-la non to get yourselves some emotional support.

 
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