I have been sexually active for two years. Almost every time I have sex urine comes out. Sometimes a little. Sometimes a lot. Most of the time, I don't want to have sex at all. I have a very low sex drive anyway. So it wouldn't bother me that much to go without it. I really don't like "denying" my boyfriend. Although he is a VERY understanding person, I feel wrong when I don't respond to him sexually. Part of me hopes that he thinks the spot on the bed is just regular fluids that come out during sex. The other part of me knows that he knows it's urine. I looked up some things on the internet concerning coital incontinence. One source said that it could result from multiple pregnancies. But I don't have any children. I don't understand why this is happening. I can't go to the doctor about this (although I should) because I have no insurance. I've been wishing for a really long time that this problem would just go away, but it won't. What should I do? I feel helpless and embarrassed.