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Old 09-04-2011, 07:56 AM   #1
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Angry daughter.in.Law, Son won't see


My Son married a girl that 'continues' to spread
her legs for anything coming and going. She also did this before they
married. Has a son by someone else that she went out with on prom night.
She called my son that same day and told him she was sick. Broke his heart.
He will not! do anything about her lies and deceite. they have 3 small
children. My grandkids which I love so very much. Even the one that isn't really my son's.
Many excuses, including me, her abuse as a child, she won't work and won't
keep a job longer than 3months.
I have tried and tried to stay out of it. but son just won't and refuses to
accept her activities. Her family knows only her sister. Sister won't speak to
her anymore. Sister stated she has been doing this from when they got married and she asked my son. He didn't ask her.
In Virginia, adultry is grounds for loosing everything including children. My husband and I retired last year.
If we must take on the care of these children, we will.
What can anyone do to get Son to get away from her, We all including
other son, has tried to talk to him. He refuses to do anything. He says he
loves her no matter what.
I spent all of my 'being' raising both even homeschool. They also by ages 19 had college and as for smarts, IQ's 145; 160,
yea way up there. Still the one with the above, will do nothing.
Usually these mom and daughter-in-law stories, moms are too keep out of it!
I can't bare to see son and kids being treated and hurt this way.
PLEASE tell me what to do besides, I did try to choke her one night. just laughted.

 
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