Thanks and I agree with you but I believe we were incompatible because he was dealing with sexual compulsive behavior. Here is why I think this. I didn't realize it but he had been meeting people off of craigslist ( girls and guys) for sex. He met 10 people for this in less than 6 mths which was right before we got together. He also looks at porn alot and is into s&m stuff. I was also the only person that he has ever had an emotional attachment and not just a physical attachment to and lack of emotional attachment was another one of those symptoms. I'm just aksing your opinion on this because he was making me feel like it was all my fault and that he didn't have any problem because all the other people he had been physical with didn't say anything to him about it.