Originally Posted by itsjustnikki
my fiancee is a 29 year old product of a broken and dysfunctional home.
how do i open him up for discussion without making him uncomfortable? how do i help him get over it? ive tried many approaches and nothing has seemed to help.. im open for any and all suggestions.. councelling (sp) is out the door, we have tried that.
Your fiancee has complex issues that cannot be solved by you alone.
Support and love are all that a person can really ask of their mate.
Repressed memories need to be worked through and there's a process to this.
The psyche is complex yet fragile in its' own right.
For this reason alone,he should seek the help of professionals.
Not every therapist is going to be a right fit for the intended patient but one must not
Especially when one's quality of life both present and future are at stake.