Re: Absolutely sick and tired of it
Your title says that you are sick of it. You have been going through this for years with two different partners.
My advice. You allow people to treat you a certain way. So, stop allowing men to treat you like crap. You seem very aware that you know how to take the bull by the horns since you left your first husband. I don't know how old you are, but let's just say you are "too old" to live like this any longer. Life is just too darn short to be unhappy.
Don't let this man break you down while you are still strong. Put your foot down and warn him this has got to stop or your marriage will be over. Would the two of you considering counseling? Better yet, are you even interested in saving this marriage?
Best of luck!
"There's a big difference in playing the victim than in causing your own personal drama." -BK