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Old 10-30-2011, 12:16 AM   #3
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Re: How do I get the courage to leave my husband?

You have two separate issues. Having low testerone and having difficulty with sex is one thing. But ignoring you and not cuddling with you? That's entirely different. Not being able to have sex may be medical but not wanting to cuddle with his wife is emotional. It sounds like he has emotionally checked out of the marriage. But, it may be due to his difficulties in the bedroom; he's too embarrassed to touch you at all for fear of it leading to something he can't finish.