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Old 11-05-2011, 04:00 PM   #1
JulesQ23 JulesQ23 is offline
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My mother in law saw us having oral sex and now hubby is shutting me out

My husband's mother was visiting from oversees and staying with us. She left to go visit another family member for several days. In her absence we decided to move our activities outside of the bedroom. In the middle of me performing oral sex on him his mother came in to the house (obviously we did not hear her) and saw way more than any mother should see being done to her son. They had words over it and of course, I was a "tramp" for "doing that". It got real ugly and he asked her to leave. We moved her into a hotel for the rest of her stay. After all was said and done, he was upset and embarrassed. That night he didn't want to talk about it and instead took to having angry, aggressive sex with me.
Now after all is said and done and she is back home, he is having issues with the whole course of events. It has been several weeks and we have not been intimate, which is unusual for us. I understand his embarrassment and I even tried to smooth over her actions and words by saying that it was my fault to initiate this outside the bedroom when we had a guest. I have no issues with the angry sex. I love my husband and am worried about his shutting me out. I have tried to open the lines of communication, have tried initiating sex, have tried to reassure him that things will blow over. I am at wits ends. Given the personal nature of this, I won't speak with my friends about it but I need advice. Ladies, gentlemen any ideas? Thanks.

 
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