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Old 11-05-2011, 05:00 PM   #3
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Re: My mother in law saw us having oral sex and now hubby is shutting me out

It sounds as if you are doing all you can. It seems that your husband was totally traumatized and it may take awhile before he can get back to himself.
I'm sorry that your mother in law called you a tramp, by the way. You're a grown, married woman, you're "allowed" to do that with your husband!
Have you asked your husband if he thought it would help if you sent your mother in law a note apologizing for what she saw? She doesn't deserve it, but what's more important is getting your husband back to normal.