| | Can I be pregnant?
Hi, my boyfriend and I have only just started having sex. The usual case with us is: we have unprotected sex for a short while and only when we really get into it, then we use condoms to prevent him from ejaculating. Now I'm worried about pre-ejaculatory fluids. We never had 2 rounds of sex, so that each time there is only pre-ejaculation, just the clear fluids. He never masturbates to ejaculate before having sex so there is no sperm in the urethra (as I have been told there is no sperm present if there is no previous sexual activity).
Nevertheless I'm still worried. He gets really wet, and I'm not sure of if this would be a risk of pregnancy. I had sex like this before and I never got pregnant, I even had an experience with the withdrawal method, and the guy came pretty close to ejaculating inside of me and there was no pregnancy. I no longer use this method as its too risky.
My boyfriend and I had sex about three times (three separate days which was not close together at all) the last time we had sex, even though we used a condom I took the pill. Since then I have been getting slight cramps like I usually do when I'm expecting my period but I'm not seeing my period; and its around that time of the month for me now...
P.S: Sorry for the long post.