Re: New here
You have a lot of valid points most of which I have agonized over. I know with out a doubt my son is not a case of boys will be boys. I hear what you are saying, and even agree on most things but comparatively to an average boy my sons age he is will off the charts in hyperactivity, impulse control, and attention spans. I am not a fan of medication especially at this age, but he is happier and better on the medication. He looks forward to taking it, in his four year old vocabulary he says he doesn't feel as bouncy like a ball.
I wish I had the ability to home school unfortunately I am a single mom who works, and his father is in another state so I don't have that option. he is extremely smart and advanced in many areas despite his tendencies because I don't allow the disorder to be a crutch.