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Old 02-03-2012, 05:58 PM   #2
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Re: Need help quick!!

Often men do not really know what to do once the baby comes and wonder if they might be hurting you or have other concerns..

My advice to you is to sit down with him and have a very loving and peaceful talk. As much as you can leave the dramatics and tears and anger out of it, for this makes it all worse. Remember that your hormones are still out of whack and try and avoid letting them come into play.

Wait...another idea comes to mind that you might try first...

Make a special night for you two. If you can have a family member watch the baby all the better. Put clean sheets on the bed, and wear something nice and comfy, but not matronly. Prepare him a nice dinner and let things happen naturally.

It could just be the adjustment to the new baby that is getting in the way...but you have to find a way to let your husband be first at times, so he does not feel like he is in second place.

I hope the best for you...babies are a huge addition to any relationship, but as long as your husband knows you want him and need him like before, that should lead him back to the bedroom with you,

Goodluck