Re: Need help quick!!
You need to sit him down and have a talk with him. Tell him that the lack of intimacy is becoming a big problem for you and you are willing to work on it but you are not buying the "makes him sore" story and you need to talk about what the real problem is. There was a well known singer who had this weird, freaky thing about having sex with a woman who had given birth. He just couldn't bring himself to have sex with a woman who had ever given birth. He told his wife when she first married her, but I guess she didn't believe him or something. When she gave birth to their daughter, he stopped having sex with her. He slept with other women, but not her, which led to her having an affair with her karate instructor which led to their divorce. If your husband has some weird, freaky thing like that, then you deserve to know about it. Sit him down and have a non-accusing, frank, honest talk with him about it.