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Old 03-09-2012, 02:26 PM   #3
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Re: HELP! Worried that boyfriend/fiance is Bisexual and in Denial

I agree with Tenpin. Don't throw your relationship away just yet. Talk to John about your feelings and concerns about what you've found. Tell him why it bothers you. If you are having a hard time communictaing with him on this topic maybe ask him if he would go to counseling with you. Did John ever get any therapy folling his experience as a 6 year old? Sexuality is a very difficult topic at times. This coming from a guy who's been married to someone for a few years and only recently discovered their sexual past and desires. I thinks its much easier to have the conversation before you are married. It helps avoid feelings of mistrust, jealousy etc. when you find out later.