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Old 03-16-2012, 05:39 AM   #2
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Re: Really need some advice :(

That is totally awesome. I wish I was in College going through puberty. I don't mean to sound unsympathetic. I honestly feel for your situation. I guess God designed us to go through that early so that we can learn how to relate to the other sex when we are still young and well, innocent really. I wonder what effect the hormones that we add to our food has on us and cases like yours and others on here (opposite) make a good case to look into that further. The "Blame Game" never seems to help anyone. I have a chronic condition that I have had since I was a baby. We can't cure it and it hurts on so many levels but it is what it is. I just have to deal.
You sir are going to have the time of your life and I am totally jealous. Seriously! Young boys going through puberty are so sexually driven. You get to experience this when you can do something about it... In other words, you don't have to spin your wheels. Get on the bus bro! Your issue is going to be learning how to be with girls. A piece of advise... Don't! Just be! They will like you for who you are, really. Girls want to have sex every bit as much as guys do.
Here's a thought. You could capitalize on your position. The devil is coming out in me now. I would bet that a good number of girls would be very curious what it would be like to be with a guy who has your condition. I would bet you could go for like days. Tell em!!! Believe me the guys with the money won't strop trying to entice them with that. You have an advantage, Use it!!!
Masturbating is something us guys just do. Most of us talk about masturbating 5 times and more a day when we are going through puberty. I'm sure you probably can't find time for that but it's your thing man. On an emo level you kinda need that. I don't see why having sex would not help in that release. I didn't have that luxury when I went through it. You'll have to learn to "find your space" but you will in time. The wet dream thing is totally cool. In short I think you're all good bro. It's a positive, not a negative. Don't you believe for one minute!

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