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Old 04-03-2012, 02:52 PM   #1
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Fiance' doesn't want sex

My fiance' and I have been together for 2 years. Out of those 2 years we have had sex maybe 8 times. We haven't had sex for the past 9 months. He has been addicted to porn since he was 16 years old (he's now 24) and he has slowed down and been attempting to quit. The only sexual activity we do (a few times a week) is that I give him oral while he watches porn. Even when we had sex he couldn't *** and it was just awkward. He gets upset about not being able to give me what I want, but how hard is it to just have sex with someone? He was a virgin before he met me if that makes any difference. The only sex he's known has been porn. I'm trying to work this out with him because I love him more than anything in the world and he treats me like a princess (minus this situation). I don't know what to do. I'm trying to be good about this but this is all we fight about. I really need advice because this is so frustrating for me because I want sex all the time and I don't want to cheat on him but this is the hardest thing ever. He swears he's attracted to me and calls me sexy and stuff, I don't know. The porn he watches is of younger girls than me and they are way thinner than I am. *sigh* I just don't know what to do.