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Old 04-14-2012, 09:38 AM   #41
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Re: Girlfriend of 4 years lied & cheated, wants me back

You're absolutely right, you don't want to end it. You're enjoying all this emotional back & forth, enjoying her declarations of love and the way she's saying she can't live without you. It's a soap opera and you're the star, eating it up.

You can continue like this for however long you allow it to continue. In the meantime, you're stringing the nice girl along, pretending you're trying to get over your ex when you're not doing anything to get over her. In fact, you don't want to get over her, you want the drama to continue.

Please, break ties with the nice girl. Be honest. Don't treat her like your ex treats you. Let her go and then make the decision, once and for all, whether or not to go back to your ex.

 
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