Re: I'm so confused...Please someone help
Many people have oral herpes and they get it as kids from parents and grandparents giving them kisses. Many people that carry the virus do not always have outbreaks. So he could have most likely gotten it from when he was younger as a child or from kissing someone. The chances of him getting type 1 from going down on someone although possible it is unlikely in my opinion.
*Please remember you can still transmit (even when no signs)& catch herpes even while using a condom since it is transmitted from skin to skin contact or from sore secretions not inanimate objects*