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Old 07-17-2012, 06:19 PM   #2
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Re: Need some insight/perspective - Seem to be hurting everyone

The toxicity of your past relationship is going to ruin your life. Your ex has you on the end of a rope that she just has to jerk to reel you back in. I do not believe that this woman is anything less than a narcissistic bully. She doesn't want you but she will be damned if anyone else is going to have you. Do not let her do this! She could keep you hanging on for years. I do not believe that she wants a normal loving relationship with you, and you must get out from under. Go back to your new lady - sixteen years age difference is not creepy. You know that your ex will reach out and try to destroy any new relationship you embark on, don't you? She wants you to feel bad and that you are not worthy of happiness without her. Please cut these ties and move on. You are NOT responsible for her. Be happy, Sera