Re: Separation and just moving forward..
Hi I forgot to say in my first post to be strong for your children too. Its tougg for kids to see that mom and dad aren't in harmony like they used to be. Even if there is no fighting between the two of you while you were living there, they still sense something isn't right. After 19 yrs of marriage it seems that you two would know each other like a book. Its good that you are opening up the lines of communication with her. Look her in the eye each chance you get and prompt her for an honest and clear response to your question. Has she always been vague and secretive when answering your questions. I think you two could benefit from counseling if she is willing to go. I hope I provided some insight into your situation. It is a struggle, but you will pull through.