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Old 07-29-2012, 05:55 AM   #2
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Re: I am unloved and put down and everyday is so hard

Hello tired and sad and welcome to the boards.

Times like this leave you with very few healthy options to consider:

1. Consider couple's therapy,family or even just for yourself,as the lasting effects of abuse can be damaging.

2. Contemplate divorce,or at the very least a separation.The boys can go with their father,as they're need to be inconsiderate is evident. At last he has a place to retreat to,if you consider separation

3. Accept things for what they are...at least you know what to expect from them,on a routine basis.(not the best option)

4. Speak with your husband and have the boys find other living arrangements. If they won't respect you,maybe they'll respect a landlord with rules and regulations.

If it's not broke don't fix it but if it is,get things repaired ASAP;before the situation gets worse.

They're breaking you down and it seems not to bother them at all.

At this point you need to look out for your own well-being.

Please keep posting as often as you feel and know,just as I stated in the top of this post,you're welcome here,always.

Respectfully
Phoenix
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Last edited by Phoenix; 07-31-2012 at 02:13 AM. Reason: spelling

 
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