Re: I am unloved and put down and everyday is so hard
Hello tired and sad and welcome to the boards.
Times like this leave you with very few healthy options to consider:
1. Consider couple's therapy,family or even just for yourself,as the lasting effects of abuse can be damaging.
2. Contemplate divorce,or at the very least a separation.The boys can go with their father,as they're need to be inconsiderate is evident. At last he has a place to retreat to,if you consider separation
3. Accept things for what they are...at least you know what to expect from them,on a routine basis.(not the best option)
4. Speak with your husband and have the boys find other living arrangements. If they won't respect you,maybe they'll respect a landlord with rules and regulations.
If it's not broke don't fix it but if it is,get things repaired ASAP;before the situation gets worse.
They're breaking you down and it seems not to bother them at all.
At this point you need to look out for your own well-being.
Please keep posting as often as you feel and know,just as I stated in the top of this post,you're welcome here,always.
When in doubt, post it out.
Last edited by Phoenix; 07-31-2012 at 02:13 AM.